As the child was a teenager, the use of gadgets difficult to control. How to effectively limit the use of gadgets or electronic devices?
Child and Adolescent psychologist from the Institute of Applied Psychology, University of Indonesia Vera Itabiliana said banning teenagers would not be the same way by banning children under five. When children are too dependent on the sophistication of the technology, as parents must continue to monitor.
"Terlanjur allow use of advanced technology would not want to have to ban, right. Well, not as easy as it again, "he said in Jakarta, recently.
To prohibit a teenager, a parent, he said, need to put more efforts. Because, if not based on reasonable grounds and the correct way, the child will not be able to understand the purpose of restrictions on the use of the gadget. How, by explaining the basic reason for the strong restrictions on the use of gadgets.
"Explain why, the reason should be obvious why the use of the gadget is restricted. What is important is clear why, so baseball can play around like that, "he explained.
Not only from the content of messages to be delivered, the parents, he added, need to consider how to convey its message. High tone and tend to attack would not be successful.
According to Vera, a more effective way is to use "I messages' and positioned as a close friend of the child.
"Tell the 'I message'. If 'You message' that attack, they (teens) not want to (follow), "he said.
Source: http://lifestyle-indonesia.com/
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